|Great-Grandma Carrie on her wedding day to her first husband, |
my Great-Grandpa John William Scott, 14 Jan 1905.
From the stories I have heard, the marriage between John and Carrie was not a happy one. It was full of struggles. It has become clear that my Great-Grandpa likely suffered from depression, and quite possibly, bipolar disorder. Carrie likely also had some sort of mental illness. The descriptions I received from my Grandma Scott of Carrie were not very nice. She described Carrie as being a hateful woman that she did not like one bit. Apparently, my Great-Grandmother wanted things her way and if it didn't go that way, she was not happy about it.
Around 1924, she and my Great-Grandfather divorced. She was remarried soon after to a man by the name of John Piedmont Smith. I have not found much information on him. I know he was born around 1894 in Oklahoma. That is about all I know about his history. It has come out, over the years, that it is likely that he abused my Grand-Aunt Bonnie. We don't know that for positive, but something he did to Bonnie led to my Grandpa Wesley Scott, around 14 at the time (circa 1927), confronting John Smith. The confrontation turned into a physical altercation resulting in my Grandpa leaving home and going it on his own. Carrie Williams ended up divorcing him sometime before 1940. She never married again.
My Great-Grandmother was by no means a perfect woman. She had a lot of anger. I can only imagine what led to that. Right now I am reading and transcribing some of her diaries in the hopes of better understanding who she was and why she was they way she was. I have 7 diaries to go through. I am currently working on the earliest dated one, from 1921, the only one written while she was married to my Great-Grandfather. The others are dated in the 1940s.They are proving interesting reading, and I plan to include them in the blog in the near future.